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essays to read on substack this week with your morning coffee 💌

POSTCARDS BY HASIF The Death of Natural Girl A funeral for the girl she was before the world told her who to be. HASIF 💌 TODAY AT 10:58 AM There was a time, a long time ago, when being yourself was enough. When a woman's beauty was defined by how she felt in her skin, not how she measured up to some societal blueprint. A time when natural wasn't just a buzzword, it was a way of being. You were you, and that was the standard. But today, the

MIXTAPES BY GOR why women are more emotionally intelligent than men GOR NOV 13, 2025 AT 7:56 AM i've always believed that women aren't born more emotionally intelligent than men, they're simply raised that way. from a young age, women are encouraged to feel, to talk, to share, to express. they grow up surrounded by conversations that give language to emotion: how did that make you feel? are you okay? what's wrong? do you want to talk about it? they are asked, again and again, to look inward and find meaning in what they feel.they are told that crying is human, that caring deeply is beautiful, and that empathy is strength.

MILK AND COOKIES how friendships change when you grow (and they don't) AYUSHI THAKKAR YESTERDAY AT 6:47 AM growing up, i always assumed friendships were supposed to move in sync. if two people liked each other enough, they'd naturally evolve together: same pace, same lessons, same timeline. but that's not how adulthood works. sometimes you grow, sometimes someone else stays exactly where they've always been, and you're left trying to navigate the strange space between who you used to be and who you're trying to become.

EVERMUSE Designing my anti-rot year and how you can start yours A seasonal guide for those who want to feel alive again EVERMUSE NOV 13, 2025 AT 8:55 AM I did it. I think I finally created a system that might cure my

THE ROSELL EDIT the vision board method that changed my life how to create a board that actually works, not just one for aesthetics. CHRISTINA YESTERDAY AT 10:57 AM there's a reason most vision boards don't work. they're cute, aesthetic, full of pretty pictures... but they have no emotional charge. and without emotion, your brain doesn't care. without clarity, your life doesn't move. this method shifted everything for me. nearly everything on my board came true this year and it wasn't luck. it was alignment, intention, clarity and trust. today i'm giving you the exact process. the one that actually works.

MIDNIGHT CRUMBS the quiet birthday guide you didn't know you needed because not every birthday needs a big party to feel special HANNAH BAY SEP 26, 2025 AT 6:02 AM i used to think birthdays had to look fancy to count. that they needed balloons, big dinners, a crowd gathered around a cake. the kind of celebration that leaves you with glitter in your hair and a pile of photos to post. but some years, life doesn't line up that way. (truthfully, i've never actually had a birthday like that, but you know the kind i mean.) some years you don't want to book a restaurant or even know enough people to fill your dining table. some years you've been through something hard like loss, change, heartbreak, or just pure exhaustion. and the idea of putting on a party feels more like performance than joy. a quiet birthday can feel lonely at first, like you're missing out on what everyone else seems to have. but i've come to believe there's something quietly radical about celebrating yourself softly, especially in seasons when the world feels too loud. because birthdays aren't about proving anything. they're about marking the fact that you're here, still, against all odds. each extra year you get is a privilege,